Every day is Valentine’s Day

In my book every day is a day to acknowledge and celebrate love. And, it is not all about the man-woman, significant-other-kind of love. Love is love. Celebrating your day with your mother, best friend, dog, and goldfish or alone doesn’t make you any less a whole loved person. Just be thankful to be able to share the day with someone or alone.

I love Valentine’s Day and I can honestly say for the last two years I have been disappointed on this day. But, I take it in stride. I had a whole bunch of beautiful days this year that over shadow any disappointment felt on this day.

This is a day for players to get caught. Most men can not handle the juggle so if your boo shows up at your door at 10pm or tries to rush you through a “early” dinner…then he may have doubled booked. He may have another girl. But, don’t jump to conclusion. It could be his mother he is taking out. There are exceptions. LOL!

But, if you find out your boo went out with his ex, Susan, or that girl at his job. It’s ok. Put it in your mental rolodex and keep it moving. Continue to empower yourself, continue to create the life you want and continue to remember that people are human. And, human beings make mistakes. And, often the pain associated with their mistakes will help stir you in a better direction. You dig?

So, enjoy, fall in love, get engaged, watch a movie, go to the park with your dog…Just have a blast because you are being celebrated. You are love. Have a beautiful day!